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*SOMATICS is a field within bodywork and movement studies which emphasizes internal physical perception and experience. The term is used in movement therapy to signify approaches based on the soma, or "the body as perceived from within”. Spiritual practice in this field and discourse sees the direct perception of an internal "life force" as sacred.

How I help you
  • We discuss your challenges and desires in love, sex, relationships & life
  • Everything is client-led and a co-created journey of self-inquiry, self-love, intimacy & discovery
  • I share embodied practices & mind-blowing info to connect you to your power & pleasure
  • I invite you into embodied somatic* experiences - undoing tensions, fears or blocks
  • I guide you into deeper relaxation, feeling, awareness, safety, pleasure, exploration & communication in empowering & expansive ways
  • With my packages you get home-play to integrate, expand and anchor your transformation
The Process

Welcome to a compassionate, 
deep & playful space for loving all of you! 

Step 1 
Read all the info on this page to make step 2 more effective

A free 20 min consultation to really check if my work is right for you - working with me involves self enquiry and deep devotion

Step 3 
Fill intake form to share your desires and challenges more deeply (part of the consultation booking process)

Step 4 
Online intro course “Portals of Pleasure” (coming soon) or demonstrate other experience that means you are ready for this deep work

Step 5
Book ritual, session, support call and / or package - this will be sent to you through the consultation process
Know, feel and love yourself, your power 
and your sexuality more and more!

Practices we can explore

I use different exercises depending on your particular desires and challenges. Everything is an invite. “No” is welcomed and encouraged. My focus is finding the right practice for you and empowering you. Practices range from…
 
  • Breath, movement and sound
  • Meditation / visualisation & relaxation
  • Orgasmic embodiment exercises
  • Wheel of consent & boundaries
  • Touch & erotic bodywork
  • Compassionate communication
  • Shadow work and more


Example topics


  • Developing Communication / Boundaries / Consent - self expression, listening, creating sexy & loving agreements
  • Overcoming pain or tension, shame, guilt, inadequacy, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, fear, body image issues, limiting or false beliefs and habits     
  • Developing intimacy, arousal, orgasm & energetic orgasm, bliss, expanded sexual pleasure, self-love, self-acceptance, confidence, self-belief, self-worth, sacred sex, the intersection of sex and spirituality
Conditioned habits, ideas, limiting false beliefs & past experiences can control what we think of ourselves, how we show up & what's possible for us. I show you how to let go of old patterns & create new blissful possibilities! 
Somatic Intimacy Sessions
My 1-1 sessions are not for most complete beginners in healing. You either complete my introductory online course “Portals of Pleasure”, (coming soon), or have experience in spiritual practice such as self-enquiry, healing, shadow work, somatic awareness, bodywork or enquiry, tantra and/or meditation. 

This is to avoid disappointment as this work is not a quick fix. I want you to benefit from what I'm offering. This work is a deep and devotional process of commitment that requires and liberates you into ownership and release of your wounds and habits so that you can fully embody your power, pleasure and purpose. I will guide you in all of it with compassionate presence if you are ready!
Packages
There is no quick fix to your challenges or desires. Deep devotion and commitment are required for real and lasting transformation.

In your 6 or 12 sessions I guide you through a systematic upgrade in your sexuality and relating skills, knowledge and embodiment. The discovery session (see below) lays the foundations for a journey where you will reclaim your power. This session will focus on your intentions, desires and challenges. I will share with you the basics of some simple and powerful skills to support you to process your challenging experiences and open to more possibilities. We will then use those skills in an experiential somatic process called sensate focus/parts work, where you get to connect with your embodied inner world, the subconscious realm, where real transformation can happen. I always end the session with integration and reflection. 

Package sessions will include some or all of:

  • The Pillars of Pleasure: What is pleasure? What conditions are necessary? What blocks do we have?
  • Consent: Knowing, feeling and communicating your desires and boundaries with compassion and effectiveness. Creating choice around unconscious patterns such as people pleasing, enduring, performance pressure; to allow us to become more authentic, in integrity and empowered in our pleasure. 
  • Orgasmic Embodiment: Practices and mindset for expanding pleasure. 
  • Pleasure mindset: How to create the (sex) life of your dreams rather than be the victim of circumstance. The power of intention, gratitude, feeling; and moving from fear of rejection, loneliness and scarcity to abundance mindset.
  • Tantric principles of polarity, consecration, sublimation of energy and non-dualism
  • Empathy and self-love: Developing the foundations laid in the discovery call. Creating self and relational connection, rather than  judging or criticising, which creates disconnection. Models we can use as structure are NVC (non-violent communication) and IFS (internal family systems). 
  • Bodywork: Massage and compassionate touch to support your nervous system to relax, release and open to new pathways of pleasure, empowerment and possibility.
  • Emotional connection and release: Techniques to support you to express and let go of blocks and patterns. 
  • Body image: Liberating our confidence through loving parts of us that may have been shamed.
  • Genital anatomy and mapping: What you didn't learn at school! Exploring the genitals with knowledge and loving touch. Creating new neural pathways and releasing fears and blocks. 
  • Kundalini Activation: An energy transmission and embodied meditation. Connecting to source and innate potential power, through energetic and physical touch, and music that activates different brainwave states/levels of consciousness. 
  • Tantric Healing Ritual: Meditation on the divine masculine and feminine and Tantric massage
All of this functions to rewire our nervous system and reprogram our individual, generational and collective conditioning. As this armour melts we gradually uncover our true nature of freedom, power, trust, wisdom, confidence, love, joy, peace and fulfilment. 
Discovery Session Before Investing
Investing in yourself is a message to your system that you are worth it!

I like to do a discovery session with you before we both decide finally if I am the right person to work with you over time. I like to give the flexibility of 2-3h. 2h can sometimes be enough if you are open and we go deeper faster. Up to 3h gives you time to build trust slower and to really give space for processes to unfold.

2-3h discovery session 
In person session £350 / €410 
Online session £300 / €350

*If you are struggling financially or these prices are just out of reach please get in touch and let’s see if we can find a way to work together
3 month 
"Accelerate"
For those that re ready to dive deep in the sessions, and want to make progress at a sustainable but impactful rate. Each session is a personalised 1-1 half day retreat.

  • x6 (3-4h) rituals or sessions 
  • x1 (1h) support call 
  • Home play exercises
  • 24h messaging/email support  
  • Price £2700 - payment plans available
  • Saving of £600 compared with x6 single sessions
6 month 
"Focused Flow"
A shorter session, encouraging steady progress towards a depth similar to that of the "Accelerate" program. Experienced over a longer time, with a balanced yet purposeful rhythm. 

  • x12 (2h) rituals or sessions
  •  x2 (1h) support calls 
  • Home play exercises
  • 24h messaging/email support 
  • Price £2700 - payment plans available
  • Saving of £1200 compared with x12 single sessions
3 month 
"Catalyst" 

Shorter sessions over a shorter time frame. A powerful yet manageable spark for change.


  • x6 (2h) rituals or sessions
  •  x1 (1h) support calls 
  • Home play exercises
  • 24h messaging/email support 
  • Price £1500 - payment plans available
  • Saving of £600 compared with x6 single sessions
One-off session price structure

2h in person session £350 / €410 - online session £300 / €350
3h in person session £450 / €525 - online session £400 / €470
4-5h session £600/ €700

*If you are struggling financially or these prices are just out of reach please get in touch and let’s see if we can find a way to work together.
Processing Support Call
If you would like individual or couples processing support on issues around sexuality and relating I offer in-person and online processing sessions. We will focus on using empathy, rather than judgement and criticism in order to find solutions. I will give empathy and guide individuals, couples or poly relationships to relate in more compassionate and effective ways in the moment. I may include some somatic exercises that support release and balancing, especially in charged and challenging moments.

Price:
90min in person session £200 (online £170)
Up to 2h30 in person £330 (online £300)

*If you are struggling financially or these prices are just out of reach please get in touch and let’s see if we can find a way to work together.
Modalities and terms used
 
*Clean language
This is the reflection of the clients own exact words back to them and the use of specific types of questions to support them to explore more deeply without imposing one’s own ideas or bias.

Questions may be: what kind of…is that…? is there anything else about that…? where do you notice this in your body? what shape, colour, texture, character does that have? What would it say if it could speak? what would you like to have happen?
*NVC - Non Violent Communication - 
A heart centred conscious approach to create understanding in connection and communication, as opposed to our conditioned strategies of judgement and finding out who’s right or wrong.
* Orgasmic Embodiment exercises: 
Heart pleasuring, Gently resting genitals, Exploring the land down under, Pelvic floor workout,  Erotic metta, In the mirror, Healthy porn, Erotic trance dancing, Self-erotic massage, The erotic microcosmic orbit, Hands free pleasuring, Vipassana pleasuring, Flirting with shadows, Dressing for practice, Shake it til you make it, Erotic trance soundscape, Touching your chakras with love, The barometer,  The chakra dijeridoo, Body prayer, Self-appreciation, Making love to the Universe, Sensual sensitizing, The abundant pleasure of breasts, Taoist spiralling, Alternate anal breathinging
*IFS - Internal Family Systems
An embodiment practice to connect with our inner world of parts - exiles and protectors - anchoring into our open, curious and compassionate Self to connect with, empathise and transform these parts into an integrated system that is unburdened and free to express and offer its gifts. 
My Approach
I create a safe space of non-judgement where you can…

  • Share yourself fully without fear
  • Rewire your neuro-pathways to create new possibilties, perspectives, experiences and feelings in your life
  • Connect body-mind-heart to move into empowered agency and choice in the present moment and find the love, sex and relationships of your dreams!
Ethics and guidelines

  • Everything is an invite and agreed before proceeding. Nothing is required to be done.
  • Rachael Nitya is always fully clothed.
  • Clients may be as clothed or naked as feels comfortable for bodywork or somatic exercises where appropriate.
  • Any erotic touch that has been agreed is always one way - from Rachael to the client.
What my clients say
I wanted to unlock more freedom, pleasure and playfulness in my body. And to deepen the connection with myself, my body and my sexuality. In the session I released some shame and fear that I was ready to let go of, which created more space and freedom within me. I let go of stuff that was still holding me back from expressing and experiencing my sexuality.

I would recommend Rachael to anyone wanting to deepen their connection with their selves, to shed dysfunctional beliefs and accumulated trauma, or to anyone wanting more self love, confidence, pleasure and joy in their life. During the session with Rachael I felt so safe as well as fully supported and honoured as an individual with all of me welcomed and seen and accepted. 

Miiska 25, Men's work facilitator, Finland
Rachael is a very sensitive and intuitive professional. I was impressed in how she made me go deeper into my real feelings. During the 1-1 session her voice and methods brought so much awareness and presence to parts of my body that I wasn't connect with anymore. 

...She creates a safe and very easy environment where I felt super welcome exactly as I'm. I really recommend her if you want to open up, connect to yourself deeply and have more joy in life! 

- Patricia Udipti, 30, Brazil, Breathwork Facilitator & Cacao Ceremony holder.

   

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