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Here's What You'll Get on the Course
Whether you're struggling with performance anxiety, wanting to enhance your experience of pleasure or create more intimacy in your life, this course can help. This 14-lesson program provides exactly what you need to get the results you want. Designed specifically for men who wish to explore new heights of pleasure, stamina, and intimacy.  This program combines ancient Tantric and Taoist practices with modern techniques, 
providing you with the tools and practices to deepen your connection with yourself and your partner(s).


What You'll Experience
  • Release shame & performance pressure
  • Rewire tension that blocks pleasure
  • Regaining erotic sovereignty from over-reliance or addiction to porn 
  • Release the pressure of goal-orientation for focus on present moment pleasure
  • Cultivate full-body orgasmic energy
  • Awaken erotic confidence & magnetism
  • Connect deeply—to yourself & others




Improved Control:
Gain mastery over your orgasmic body through targeted exercises, including breathing techniques, pelvic floor activation, and energy circulation practices. These practices empower you to be fully in command of your sexual experience.




Enhanced Pleasure:
 It is through more sensitivity, not less, that you last longer and feel more intense, orgasmic, full body pleasure; physically, emotionally and energetically. Discover how deeper presence leads to more satisfying intimacy.



Deeper Intimacy: 
Foster a stronger emotional and physical connection with yourself and your partner (or potential partner) by incorporating emotional awareness, communication skills and energy exchange into your sexual practice.


What's Inside
You'll get access to videos, resources, community and more in your private client dashboard


  • 14 Transformative Lessons (theory + practice)
  • Guided Pleasure Practices: breathwork, energy, self-touch, ritual
  • Tantric & Taoist Wisdom: made practical and trauma-informed
  • Reflection Prompts: track your insights and growth
  • Inclusive & shame-free: for all penis-owners, all orientations
PLUS...

❤️ Lifetime Access & private support community
⌚ Optional 1:1 support calls and somatic sessions at a discounted rate

✔️ Mobile and computer friendly

✔️ Work at your own pace

✔️ A positive, supportive, social media-free learning environment


Learn From the Best
Here's more about me and why my course is worth waiting for


My Work
I offer intimacy and sexual healing coaching, workshops, and retreats grounded in:
  • Certification in Sexological Bodywork
  • 500+ hours of yoga teacher training
  • Kundalini activation (Innerdance)
  • Tantric and Taoist principles
  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and Internal Family Systems (IFS)
    —all held within a container of deep safety, embodiment, and consent.

Hi! I’m Rachael Nitya

I’m here to share with you that sex, love and life can be amazing! 

I believe sexuality is natural and a gift. It's the basis of all of Life and creation. It connects us to the source within us, where we access limitless love, wisdom, power, aliveness, inner authority and pleasure. It has been repressed and shamed but it is time to reclaim our sovereign power and pleasure, and live fully!


My Story
I came to sexual healing and spirituality because I felt there is more to sex, love and life than routine habits and conventions. My marriage wasn't reflecting that for me so I journeyed into Tantra, Sexological Bodywork and Kundalini activation to explore unknown realms of myself and possibility! I love variety and I love going deep. For me this is about always seeing with new eyes in wonder, and not thinking I already know. Every moment is changing and has something magical for me if I’m open and present. 



Life is a miracle and so are you!




This work is my deepest calling. I’m here to guide you back to your body, your pleasure, your sovereignty and the wisdom that’s always lived inside you.








I also bring over 30 years of experience in the arts, with a BA Hons in Theatre, an MA in Performance Studies, and a past life that included running away with the circus. I write and perform original music, available on all major platforms, and see creativity as another form of erotic expression.
Over the past 6 years, I’ve worked with hundreds of people navigating sexuality, love, and relating. I’ve led Conscious Relating and Kundalini Innerdance retreats in Ireland, Portugal, Australia, and Thailand, and from 2022 - 2023, I co-created Northern Ireland’s first Tantric Massage Practitioner Training (Levels 1 & 2).
This Work Works. Here's Proof.
, This work meets you wherever you are, whether you're curious, struggling, or experienced, and transforms shame, tension, or disconnection into confidence, clarity, and deeply embodied pleasure.

"The sexual issues that I originally booked an appointment with Rachael to try and resolve, have been resolved. But not the way I expected. I had the idea that Rachael would show me some techniques with breath and pelvic floor exercises and that would be it. We did cover these, from a tantric and taoist approach, but we also covered so much more, working on the emotional foundations that make great sex possible. And my sex life now is great, and still improving. I am able to communicate with my partner in an unashamedly honest way, and able to express myself and my own needs.

I would recommend Rachael's unique services to anyone who would like to deepen their knowledge of themselves, their bodies, their sexuality, their sensuality. Even the homework was enjoyable."

Peter
1-1 Client
N. Ireland

"The benefits were huge in that I was able to reconnect the arousal of my heart and my sex consistently for the first time. I'd had a lot of mental ideas and fantasies about my sexuality from childhood trauma, and subsequent erotic encounters, which didn't seem to be alive in my body. By working online with Rachael, I was able to get enough perspective to see where the disconnects were by embodying different parts of my psyche through somatic sexological practices. Rachael has a lovely, soothing presence, and a great knack of knowing when to invite curiosity, when to question, and when to allow things to be as they are. I trust her capacity to hold people in difficult and potentially traumatic emotional places, as she did for me, many times in our six online sessions."

Graham Gough
1-1 Online Client
England, UK
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Got Questions? We've Got You!

Is this Course too Spiritual or out there for me?

If some of this feels new or unfamiliar, that’s actually a sign you’re in the right place. Most of us were never taught how to connect with our bodies or our energy, so this isn’t about being spiritual, it’s about finally reclaiming the parts of yourself that were never nurtured. 

This course isn’t about dogma or spiritual performance - it’s about helping you feel more powerful, present, and connected in your actual, physical life. Whether you're in the bedroom, in a boardroom, or by yourself, these practices help you build sexual confidence, clarity and calm.”

This course is not offering a “spiritual belief system”, but instead, practical nervous system regulation, embodiment, and self-awareness using tools that happen to come from traditions like Tantra.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT TO OTHER SIMILAR COURSES?

What sets Sexual Mastery for Men apart is the depth of presence, emotional attunement, and sacredness I bring as a deeply embodied feminine guide. Many men find it easier to open up with a woman – especially when she can hold space without judgment, and with loving clarity. This course isn’t just about technique or arousal – it’s about healing, integration, and awakening your full erotic potential with safety, depth, and honour.

My approach is trauma-informed, consent-led, and emotionally intelligent. It’s not about bypassing or pushing – it’s about meeting all parts of you with compassion, including the tender, uncertain, or shamed places. You’ll learn to cultivate real inner confidence by reclaiming your body as a place of wisdom and pleasure.
As a Northern Irish woman, I understand the particular layers of shame, silence, and cultural conditioning many of us carry around sexuality – especially in Ireland and the UK. And after years of living, training, and teaching internationally in Portugal, Thailand, Australia and beyond, I bring a global, inclusive lens that allows me to work deeply with people from many cultures and walks of life.

This is not a cookie-cutter course. It’s a rich, living journey into embodied masculine presence – held by someone who sees you, honours your vulnerability, and walks beside you as you reclaim your power.

Is the course too advanced or basic for me?

This course is designed to meet you exactly where you are, whether you're brand new to embodied sexuality or already well into your journey. The practices are layered and versatile: accessible for beginners, yet profound for those with experience. You’ll be guided through tried and tested techniques, tools, and principles that reveal new depths each time you return to them. Why? Because you are different each time, more attuned, more open, more capable of feeling and integrating. In somatic and Tantric work, it’s not about how complicated the technique is, it’s about how deeply you can meet it. Real transformation comes from presence, repetition, and the willingness to feel more. This is not a race or a performance, it’s a lifelong unfolding into more of who you truly are.

What if I don't get results?

The only way you won’t get results is if you don’t show up for the work. This course isn’t about passive consumption, it’s about sacred devotion; sexual pleasure practices for rewiring your nervous system, re-patterning your arousal, and reclaiming the pleasure, power, and presence that already live inside you. These have been repressed, not given permission and been hidden by years of habitual conditioned armour that blocks you from your innate erotic power. From a somatic and Tantric perspective, real transformation happens through consistent practice.

You're not just learning information, you’re building new neural pathways, shifting deep-rooted habits, and restoring safety, sensitivity, and sovereignty in your body. If you engage with the practices, stay curious, and bring your full presence, results are not only possible, they're inevitable! This is sensitive work, so the whole way you are encouraged to go at YOUR pace, to dive as deep as YOU are ready. Slowness is actually one of the keys of pleasure and safety that will guide you into deeper awareness, expansion and getting the results you desire! 
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